I’m writing this just after finishing a workout—heart rate up, body warm, breath steady. Moments like this remind me of something essential: real change doesn’t start with ideas alone.
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Because Entitlement Rarely Begins with Excess: A Relational Framework for Professionals Working with Marriage and Family Wealth
Feb 13, 2026
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When the Word “Entitled” Enters the Room
When a client uses the word entitled, something significant has already happened in the system. The word rarely appears at the beginning of tension. It usuall...
Because Entitlement Rarely Begins with Excess: Understanding Uncertainty in Marriage and Family Wealth
Feb 13, 2026
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There’s a question that sits quietly beneath many conversations about entitlement, though it’s rarely spoken out loud:
If I can’t count on you emotionally, relationally, can I at least count on you f...
Learning, Healing, and Growth: Why Money Keeps Teaching Us the Same Lessons
Feb 13, 2026
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Most adults assume that learning, healing, and growth are separate processes.
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Learning happens in classrooms or through reading.
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Healing happens in therapy.
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Growth is what we hope shows
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When Your Financial Life Outgrows the Story You’ve Been Living
Jan 20, 2026
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Most couples assume that once they “make it,” money will finally feel easier.
Less stress.
Fewer arguments.
More freedom.
But many couples are surprised to discover that when their net worth crosses...
What We Built Together in 2025 and What We Are Excited For In 2026: Financial Intimacy, Yes Please
Jan 05, 2026
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Dear friends, colleagues, and clients,
As we step into a new year, we wanted to pause and share something important with you.
Healthy Love & Money isn’t just a website, a podcast, or an email list. ...
Connecting Inner and Outer Worlds: A Facilitation Guide for Financial Planners, Financial Therapists, and Coaches Working With Couples and Money
Jan 05, 2026
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This guide is designed for professionals who work at the intersection of money, relationships, and behavior and who regularly encounter the reality that financial decisions are never just financial.
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Financial Planning as Exposure Therapy: Why Facing the Numbers Can Strengthen Your Relationship
Dec 19, 2025
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Most couples don’t avoid financial planning because they’re lazy, irresponsible, or “bad with money.”
They avoid it because money is emotionally activating.
Looking closely at your finances, your in...