Healthy Love and Money Blog

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The Transforming Power of Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™ Mar 27, 2025

What an incredible honor to receive such a thoughtful endorsement from a wonderful client. Through steady and intentional work, she has grown and blossomed as both a therapist and a businesswoman, mak...

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The Language of Investing: A Therapeutic Approach to Financial Conversations Mar 27, 2025

Sitting across from each other, you and your partner might have different reactions when the topic of investing comes up. Maybe one of you feels confident, while the other feels uncertain. Or maybe bo...

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Facing Tax Time Together: A Couples Guide to Turning Tax Season into a Relationship Win Mar 17, 2025

Does tax season bring out stress, avoidance, or frustration in your relationship? You’re not alone. Many couples feel tension when it comes to taxes—not just because of the numbers but because of the ...

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Breaking Free from the Trap of Servant Leadership and Noble Poverty—Together Mar 14, 2025

Breaking Free from the Trap of Servant Leadership and Noble Poverty—Together

There’s a message many of us have absorbed since childhood: To be good is to serve. To be virtuous is to give. To be worth...

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Unlocking Ambition in Your Relationship: Giving Each Other Permission to Want More Mar 11, 2025

I’ve been thinking a lot about ambition and drive this week. Specifically, how we develop it—or don’t. With great love and respect for my parents, I’ve come to realize that I didn’t see ambition and d...

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The High-Stakes Financial Conversations High-Income Couples Aren’t Having (But Should Be) couples and money financial communication financial decision-making money beliefs Mar 04, 2025

It starts the same way every time.

The kids are finally in bed. You both collapse onto the couch, exhausted from a day packed with work meetings, school pickups, and figuring out wh

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The Complex Intersection of Success, Shame, Rage, and Identity Security Feb 27, 2025

Success is often held up as the ultimate goal—the shining emblem of a life well-lived. Yet, for many, success can be a double-edged sword. Beneath the accolades, the financial gains, and the social re...

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The Stories We Tell About Money: How to See Your Partner’s True Intentions Feb 20, 2025

In the world of relationships, finances often act as both a bridge and a battleground. When couples navigate financial decisions together, it’s not uncommon for one partner to assign an intention or m...

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