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Financial Self-Soothing Not What You Expect! Oct 27, 2022

How are you feeling right now about your financial life? Stop and take a minute to check in with yourself. 

 

Are you tense in your chest, shoulders, or stomach?

 

Are you taking...

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Discover Two Factors That Determine Your Money Mindset financial planning financial therapy financial well-being mindset trauma Oct 20, 2022

     It’s a large conference of fee-only financial planners, and on walks to the stage Dr. Sarah Newcomb from Morningstar. She begins her incredible presentation with her...

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Rethinking The Love of Money Oct 13, 2022

Time for Reflection

I invite you to take a few minutes and reflect on your reaction to the title of this blog post. 

 

What do you notice coming up for you?

Anger

Dismissing

Curiosity

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When Questioning Your Religious Beliefs Up Ends Financial Intimacy financial intimacy religion Sep 29, 2022

     We are sitting eating burritos on a beautiful patio at a professional personal finance conference, and Zoe (not her real name) starts talking about her religious beliefs. No, it...

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Conducting A Wedding, My Wedding Anniversary & Financial Intimacy Oh My! financial communication financial intimacy marriage wedding Sep 22, 2022

     The past weekend has been unlike any other in my life. In one day, I conducted a wedding for the first time, and I celebrated 16 years of marriage. To say Friday the 16th of...

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Foggy Heads & Knotted Stomachs Looking At Your Financial Numbers Sep 12, 2022

     Zoe sits anxiously upright on my couch, we have been working together for six months, and I ask her how her financial life is going. On the surface, this would seem like an...

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Stuck Between Two Good Decisions: Remodel The Kitchen or Go On A Trip Sep 05, 2022

     Couples can get stuck between two good choices. Recently I heard from Rebecca and Charlie, who were stuck on whether to save money towards remodeling their kitchen or taking a...

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Let's Have A Money Talk About Financial Infidelity Aug 29, 2022

Reading this blog post will not be the easiest thing to read. You will likely start to squirm in your chair, and maybe your palms will even get sweaty. But if you stick with me, this will be worth...

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