Healthy Love and Money Blog
Develop intimacy and trust with your partner and in your finances
Denial is a common defense mechanism where you refuse to accept facts or reality.
Avoidance is a defense mechanism where you might avoid dealing with a tough issue through different behaviors...
Projection is a psychological defense mechanism where someone avoids recognizing their unacceptable impulses and traits by projecting them onto another person.
In relationships, projection...
Gaslighting is when someone tries to convince you that your perception of reality is wrong and not based on facts or evidence. Gaslighting can be very damaging to relationships. However, it’s...
Your financial story is powerful. More powerful than you likely fully recognize, at least consciously.
I have been busy the last few months promoting my new book The Healthy Love and Money...
Validation is an essential part of human interaction. It's a critical communication tool and an expression of acceptance and connection within relationships.
Relationships that are safe and...
Defensiveness is a psychological defense mechanism that is often used in response to criticism.
This psychological defense mechanism is often used by couples during conflict and can lead to a...
Stonewalling is a psychological defense mechanism that’s often used by a member of a couple during conflict.
It can be especially destructive when used in conflict about financial matters in...
As a Therapy Informed Financial Planner, I help couples go from financial frustration, resentment, anger, and shame to financial freedom, intimacy, and connection.
Recently, I wrote a letter...
