Healthy Love and Money Blog

*Trigger Warning* This blog post talks about sexual abuse and its impact on my life and those of the clients I have worked with. No identifying client information will be shared and important details ...

How do you know where you stand financially? Is it through your intuition, hope, a look at your bank account, or your investment balances? 

Financially healthy couples have a working knowledge of the...

As a couple, each of you likely has different comfort levels about looking at your net worth. This is an understandable starting place, but it’s not where you want to stay. 

Net worth is the diffe...

​John* and Lisa* had a huge blow-up the night before they saw me. Lisa was sick and tired of John’s criticisms about her spending and not sticking to the family budget he had set for them. They were d...

 You may not want to read this — and I understand. 

You may be thrilled to read this — and I understand.

You may have mixed feelings about reading this — and I understand.

Reading about and work...

Sitting in my favorite coffee shop, Brakeman’s Coffee, I overhear a lot of conversations while writing these blogs. 

Recently, I heard a group of women lamenting over their husbands' comments abou...

Training for and running a half marathon carries many parallels with our financial lives–some more obvious than others. Recently, I trained for and ran in the Charlotte Half Marathon, and it reminded ...

When we start our journey towards financial security, success, stability, or any other similar word, most people I meet begin by acquiring more knowledge than they currently have. They may turn to sou...