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Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™: Where Finance Meets Emotional Insight Jun 01, 2025

Welcome to a new way of working with money — one that honors both the numbers and the nervous system.

If you've ever felt like financial advice alone doesn’t go deep enough, you're not alone. Many of...

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What’s Driving You: Security or Shame in Relationships and Money May 29, 2025

We all have a drive—an engine humming beneath the surface of our daily choices. It manifests in how we relate to our partners, how we manage our finances, and how we plan our futures. But the real que...

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Couples and Goals: Why Shared Financial Planning Isn’t Just About the Numbers May 19, 2025

What Are You Really Planning For?

When couples begin financial planning, they usually bring a list of to-dos: pay off the student loans, save for a kitchen remodel, or finally take that bucket list t...

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Finding Financial Gratitude: A Path to Clarity, Connection, and Confidence May 09, 2025

By Mary Lou Daly, Head of Therapy-Informed Financial Planning™ at Healthy Love and Money

Off and on throughout my life, I’ve come back to the practice of gratitude.

It began with Jon Kabat-Zinn’s Mi...

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The Surprising Power of Parables: What The Money Catalyst Taught Me About Healing My Relationship with Money May 09, 2025

Leisa Peterson and I have known each other for years. We’ve shared encouragement, ideas, and a mutual passion for helping people transform their relationship with money. So when she invited me to be a...

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Barcelona, Soccer, and the Gift of Financial Growth: A Family Journey into Play, Privilege, and Perspective May 01, 2025

Growing Into a New Chapter of Family Travel

I recently returned from an unforgettable trip to Barcelona with my teenage son. He was invited to play in a global youth soccer tournament, and we joined ...

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What’s In Your Financial Closet? A Gentle Invitation to Take Inventory May 01, 2025

Have you ever opened your closet and thought, “Why do I even still have this?”
A jacket from a job you left five years ago. A pair of shoes that never quite fit. A box of old receipts, photos, or lett...

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When Couples Struggle to Talk About Money: The Questions Beneath the Silence Apr 28, 2025

Money is supposed to be simple, right?
Numbers on a page. A budget. A few "smart" choices.

But if you’ve ever tried to talk about money with your partner—and ended up in silence, tension, or a full-b...

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