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5 Steps on How to Win Your Husband Back From Money Problems Jan 19, 2024

 Every week I talk with wives who are confused, frustrated, and scared about their marriages. Their husbands have become disengaged, angry, and resentful. 

It is completely understandable...

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How Healing From Childhood Sexual Abuse Is Part of a Good Financial Life Jan 05, 2024

*Trigger Warning* This blog post talks about sexual abuse and its impact on my life and those of the clients I have worked with. No identifying client information will be shared and important...

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Increasing Financial Intimacy Through The 5 Stages of Intimate Relationships Dec 22, 2023

How do you know where you stand financially? Is it through your intuition, hope, a look at your bank account, or your investment balances? 

Financially healthy couples have a working knowledge...

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Why Working On Your Net Worth As A Couple Creates Financial Intimacy Dec 14, 2023

 

As a couple, each of you likely has different comfort levels about looking at your net worth. This is an understandable starting place, but it’s not where you want to stay. 

Net...

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How Couples Overcome Financial Overwhelm and Master Money Together Dec 07, 2023

John* and Lisa* had a huge blow-up the night before they saw me. Lisa was sick and tired of John’s criticisms about her spending and not sticking to the family budget he had set for them....

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How Complex PTSD is Adversely Affecting Your Financial Well-Being Nov 30, 2023

 You may not want to read this — and I understand. 

You may be thrilled to read this — and I understand.

You may have mixed feelings about reading this — and I...

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How do I talk to my partner about their excessive spending? Nov 17, 2023

Sitting in my favorite coffee shop, Brakeman’s Coffee, I overhear a lot of conversations while writing these blogs. 

 

Recently, I heard a group of women lamenting over their...

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5 Lessons On Financial Well-Being From My Half Marathon financial well-being wealth Nov 10, 2023

Training for and running a half marathon carries many parallels with our financial lives–some more obvious than others. Recently, I trained for and ran in the Charlotte Half Marathon, and it...

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